In the thirty minutes a day I exercise on my elliptical, I watch television to keep my mind somewhat occupied. The majority of programs I've chosen lately are British (The Thick of It, Line of Duty), Scottish (The Book Group), and Irish (Single-Handed). If not for closed-captioning, I'd have been lost; oh, they spoke "English"… Continue reading Ever Been To Nando’s?
If this five-part series on The Secret of Happiness has taught me anything, it is that this topic is well nigh inexhaustible! So many and varied thoughts about what exactly The Secret of Happiness is. Resources available on the World Wide Web include writings from a multitude (both living and dead) and it would be… Continue reading The Secret of Happiness V
More about the secret of happiness, you ask? Transitioning this series of posts from SpongeBob Smiley's magic formula for happiness ... to happiness as something one must choose and cultivate ... to Dr. Viktor Frankl's view of happiness as a fanciful American phenomenon, one might imagine these three posts cover the spectrum reasonably well ...… Continue reading The Secret of Happiness IV
Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist Dr. Viktor Frankl once said: "It is the very pursuit of happiness that thwarts happiness." His memoir, Man's Search for Meaning, was chosen by a survey of readers in 1991 as one of the ten most influential books in America. (Many readers considered the book "life-changing.") Dr. Frankl suggested the concept of happiness is an illusory construct unique to our American culture.… Continue reading The Secret of Happiness III
Yesterday, I offered a tongue-in-cheek post about happiness. The post caused me some trepidation, because I am not a skilled humorist (though I love good satire). I was genuinely concerned the post would be misunderstood or my humor would fall flat. It wouldn't be the first time. In general, I've never been able to deliver… Continue reading The Secret of Happiness II
If you do a Google search for the word happiness, some 293 million supposedly relevant links result. Wikipedia − always the ultimate resource for helpful information − offers this summation: Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.Wikipedia also includes a picture of a yellow smiley… Continue reading The Secret of Happiness I
Children can be exhausting, inconvenient, messy. Years ago as a mother of young children, I know I must have done more than my share of complaining. I'll never forget my disgust (with myself) when I realized indulging my habitual selfishness and self-centeredness was no longer acceptable. It was time to grow up and take responsibility… Continue reading The Rare Gift of Contentment
A new book out this month caught my eye. The title, Why Nobody Goes To Church Anymore, probably invites a thousand different responses, many of which could be thoughtful while a roughly equal number of others might be scornful and acid-tinged. I'm guessing few people seeing that title will be neutral about it. It's a… Continue reading Jesus Is Awesome!
Several of my previous posts deal in some way with Beauty. In his superb book Restoring Beauty, Louis Markos offers a striking paradox: "... we are often more afraid of beauty than of ugliness." If beauty elicits fear, aging terrifies. As long ago as 1513, explorer and conquistador Juan Ponce de Leon searched for life-sustaining water, a legendary Fountain of Youth. An… Continue reading On the Way to One Hundred
With Halloween arriving next week, what better occasion to talk graveyards and headstones? Today's news had a story about Cincinnati's Spring Grove Cemetery and Arboretum announcing its decision to banish two recently installed gravestones. One gravestone marks the spot of deceased Army Sgt. Kimberly Walker while the other monument honors her twin sister Kara (still… Continue reading SpongeBob In Granite